There are three types of women.

#1) The DoitAll woman :

This woman can do it all, she thinks that she doesn’t need help, she tries to fix everything, help everyone and be everywhere are once, but she doesn’t focus on herself and helping herself until she just has a complete melt down and realizes that she hasn’t been helping the one person who needs it the most.

#2) The helpless woman:

This woman gives up before she even tries, she thinks that she can’t do anything so she doesn’t try to help and she always is having someone help her. Her whole life she will go on thinking that she wont succeed or go anywhere. She “thinks” she is happy with that, she will never be fully happy with herself, because she doesn’t trust or believe in herself.

#3) The understanding woman:

This woman, knows her limits. She knows the things she can do on her own and she knows when to ask for help. She has a healthy relationship with herself and she respects herself.

I relate to number one but I am working on becoming number three, I usually like to carry all of the groceries in at one time, I am learning to carry what I can, and then go back or ask for help for the rest.


I was raised that you can do anything you set your mind to. I sometimes take it a little farther than I can handle. My poor husband is the one who usually has to deal with it when I carry on to much.  I made a change the other day to not be the girl who can do everything.

Everyone needs help at sometimes and its pride that stands in the way. Its pride and selfishness that overtakes us to think we can do everything. We can do everything we set our minds to but we can’t do it all at once and we can’t do it all alone. God has been patient with me, and I am grateful for that, but if I don’t decide to ask for help when needed or seek counsel when needed, then I wont change and I wont go anywhere in life.

We learn new things everyday, and we learn new things about ourselves everyday.

What number are you?? If you can relate to one of the three types of women, and you are not happy being one or two. Are you willing to change? Are you willing to try and become a better person for yourself and for those who love you?


Friendly Freckles Fondness.


This blog has to do with loving yourself for who you are.

I have a mole that I used to hide with my hair but once I learned to love myself and realized it made me who I was, I began to love it and show the world who I was!

Diana Michelle

Never Give Up

Recipe For Marriage

Marriage Tips | Love Advice | Healthy Relationships

domestic diva, M.D.

my mother raised the perfect housewife...then I went to med school

The Better Man Project ™

a journey into the depths

for the love of nike

for the love of nike


be the best you.

Happy Thanksgiving 2012

2012 thanksgiving, Thanksgiving turkey, Thanksgiving recipes, Thanksgiving dinner, Thanksgiving sales, Thanksgiving gifts

Christ! Xmas

all about Christmas and Santa.

%d bloggers like this: